Something else...

A year of B-boy

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He looks so much like his cousin, Sawyer

Helping Grams in the kitchen....

Personality plus

Melts my heart....

Demolishion pro...

Cheese for the camera

(out of order) A great find in Aunt Kathy's kitchen

watching the duck song over and over

Thanksgiving photo session with Bee (aka Grams)

Uncle Alex has my nose....

Sweet Bretton, you fill me with love.

I thank God for you.

I love you around the moon and more....

Looking back...and 10 months later

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Our 2010 Christmas angel

All wrapped up

Roaring!

Posing with pinkie....

and 10 month later....

Her 5 yr old birthday week....

changing with a great heart and sweet spirit!

Morgandy, Grams loves you for always and more!

One Stop Shopping

2011-12-09T16:23:00.000-08:00

No, this is not a messy room. This is a well planned out

store. All you need is a shopping bag. The owner, Morgandy,

lets you know that you can buy anything you want, FREE!

Need a car, Cinderalla dress, baby doll, books or stuffed animals?

Take your pick and fill up your bag. You are invited to come again,

and if you don't need anything else, then you can shop for the needy.

It is magical when the books transform to other languages for

children in other countries. She has something for everyone.

I love shopping, and will cherish this special shop and it's owner.

I figure this store will not always be open, she is growing so fast.

It is a pleasure to shop at Morgandy's One Stop Shopping.

The Family....Thanksgiving & Christmas

2011-12-05T15:50:00.000-08:00

The post below, is some of the pictures taken while in Chicago for Thanksgiving. For whatever reason, it would not allow me to write about each picture. Our family has a wonderful time together, but in all that busyiness, we fail to take family photo's. My girls are the best cooks ever! We took turns doing the meals and it was great. Getting to be with those 3 precious kids was delightful. Bretton needed to be on my lap anytime someone else was with me. He decided to call me "Bee" and it was with pure delight in his voice...more than I deserved. Morgandy wondered why we couldn't just live with them, she has my heart for sure. Hudson gives smiles freely, and I want that spirit to grow with him.

Alex had another outstanding play and we are so impressed with his skills & talent. He is a good man and that is what I am most proud of.

My grandkids have such awesome daddies and I love the fun they have with them.

I ask myself 10 times a day, "How did I ever raise 3 kids." I don't recall all the hard work, but being showered with hugs and "kids saying the funniest things" evens it out for sure.

Lana and Myra are doing great jobs in showing those kids the love of the Lord.

Scroll on down and see some of the fun we had together.

Thanksgiving

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The fun stuff is...

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The fun stuff is when Bretton plays hide and seek, with open fingers over his eyes

and follows me to my hiding place. Or when he wants to bounce grapes on the tray.

When he loves to dance or tear apart legos. Priceless!

The fun stuff is when Morgandy tells me if I sing a song to much,

it will get stuck in her head. Or after the worker at a resturant is

asking Mo about her 5th birthday, then Morgandy turns to me and says

"If she doesn't quick talking and get to work, she will be in trouble."

She is eager to tell anyone, that she just turned 5.

Priceless and Precious!

Mymuh's Pineapple cake.

2011-08-01T15:43:00.000-07:00

We just returned from Marc's family celebration, honoring the 100 birthday of his late parents.

It's always a great time to connect, watch the kids enjoy each other and eat lots of good food.

This year, Twila shared the recipe of their grandmother's favorite cake, always made for the reunions in the past.

Had to try that it....

and love the original recipe

Pineapple Cake

Yellow cake mix (even 60 yrs ago)

Topping:

Hand full of flour

Butter (size of an egg) (3 TBSP)

Glass of water (3/4 cup)

Small can of crushed pineapples

In skillet melt butter and mix with flour.

Add water and a cup of sugar

Then add crushed pineapples.

It was very yummy and I'm glad that Twila was able to translate the recipe.

It's always fun to share recipes from the past and feel connected to those that are so special to the family.

Best reasons not to blog...part 2

2011-07-25T10:59:00.000-07:00

Haven't had a lot of time to blog recently...

but can there be a better reason

than these precious ones?

Best reasons to not blog...part 1

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IT'S YOUR DAY, Hudson!

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04 -22-11

My sweet Hudson,

You're finally here, just the way God planned. HIS, is a perfect plan, one that will always include HIS love for you.

You, precious Hudson, will always be loved by so many. The day you were being born, calls came from family that were anxious to meet you. People that loved you, before they knew you.

We kept thinking of "Good days" for you to be born.

Your Daddy wanted you to come on Opening day for the Royals....but that didn't happen.

Your Mom wanted you to come sooner, than later....but that didn't happen.

Your Papa wanted you to come on April 11th, so you could share your birthday with Aunt Jolene, cousin Keith and Kevin & DeeAnn's anniversary....but that didn't happen.

I wanted you to come on April 13th, the day we celebrated your Papa John's life... and your Mother's birthday...but that didn't happen.

You made a grand entrance on a day remembered like no other...it is called "Good Friday" The day we recall the gift of God's son, Jesus. You will never receive a better gift than the love God has for you and the plan he carried out to show that love.

Hudson, Your Mommy and Daddy will help you learn the sweetness of that gift from God. Since you have come into their life, they see God's love greater than ever. We all do, we look at you and see God's love for us. You are loved beyond measure.

We love you, Hudson Wayne Miller!

Fun Reminders

2011-02-27T14:00:00.000-08:00

I am reminded of the influence watching TV had on Alex,

every time I come across Aunt Jemima products at the store.

Sitting at the breakfast table, eating pancakes, 3 yr old Alex,

pointed to the picture on the Aunt Jemima syrup bottle, and said,

"Look, Momma, There's Bill Cosby."

He still makes us laugh!

Today, there was an auction at church... which reminded me

of the time Lana bid for a "pie a month", helping Chris Blessing

and I was having a cow, wondering where she was going to get the

money.

I love this gift and the reminder that real soon, a new

precious name will complete the list.

These sweet kids remind me of a joy, bigger than I ever

imagined.

I am grateful for fun reminders of abundant blessings.

Noisy Quiet!

2011-02-18T18:41:00.000-08:00

I miss Bretton climbing under and over all things within his reach.

I miss the remote control swipper.

I miss the sweet girl that "is a good Mommy"

I miss books in every room and "Grams, will you read to me."

I miss the fun times and entertainment of just loving and

enjoying each other.

I miss the little pilot that could make the plane go side ways and

backwards.

As today has been crazy quiet, and things return to there place,

I still hear sweet noise of two wonderful grandchildren.

No doubt, as they start a new adventure, in a new place,

They will have the guidance of two awesome parents.

Ready for lots more great times ahead, when quiet isn't so

noisy.

If I only had a camera at Church...

2011-02-03T06:22:00.000-08:00

The past few Sundays at church, I've seen a bit of transformation in Morgandy.

She had a hard time understanding the wisdom of Solomon when he acted like he was going to cut the baby in half... ( "it's wrong to play a trick on others," she said) I understand her confusion.

I wanted to record the Sunday she sat in her Mom's lap and sang, "Surround us, Lord" ...it was precious.

Communion was a novelty to her, and she ask why everyone was eating crackers. Then she just had to lick the leftover juice in the cup.

The conversation surrounding communion has been extensive, in a 4 yr old way, so she finally planned her own communion this past Sunday. She had a fish cracker, then bowed her head, folded her hands and thought of Jesus. Then she had a drink of water, and did the same thing.

It made me appreciate the simple love of a child. She shines with the desire to express worship to God.

As she pays more attention, in worship service, she ask why that man (the song leader) was waving his hand?

Watching this sweet girl is a precious connection to God's love. I am blessed and transformed by her love.

Favorite things....

2011-01-22T06:49:00.000-08:00

Dear Miss Morgandy,

As a big 4 yr old, you love hearing stories of when you were little.

You also love "The Sound of Music"

So, as I was thinking of you and the new songs you are learning,

I wanted to show you a few of my favorite things.

Watching you grow up and love life is one of my favorite things.

You love books, dancing, singing, playing, helping, friends, fun food, and being a sweet sister.

Yesterday, you wore a shirt that had the word "sweet" on it.

You told me that word that shirt meant you are a sweet sister...

And you are...sweet and fun!

Today, you talked about being shy (for a while) around Jesus, when you go to heaven,

because you haven't seen him.

But, do you know that I see Jesus in you?

I love you, Miss Morgandy,

for always and ever!

Adam loves ...

2011-01-15T08:20:00.000-08:00

... Family, Friends and celebrations...so...

last year, here came Bella Marie,
a new grandchild for my sister,
born on the 3rd year of Adam's death.
Stories comfort me, so I love the
idea that Adam ask God to give his family ,
someone else to celebrate on this day of his
homecoming.
So sweet Bella, you are a joy in our sorrow, a
sweet gift from a gracious God...(and Uncle Adam)

Another Year....

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of Family, Fun, Friends and Travel....

and I'm the blessed one to get to come along for the ride.

I love you, Marcus and hope this year is full of more good times.

Happy Birthday!

What's a person to do?

2010-12-17T13:05:00.000-08:00

When I was teaching at CSK, (a Christian School) one of the students voiced his concern about going to public school. He mentioned that he would not be allowed to carry his Bible in school. He didn't carry it around CSK, but at least he had the right to, if he wished.

I acknowledged that it was no good, BUT, it wasn't "carrying a Bible" that would make a difference, it was "Being God's Child" that others would notice. That involved how he talked, who he cared about, and being a respectful student. No one can take away how you choose to act.

I had to remind myself of that very point today. While shopping in Walmart, I ask one of the employee's about a news report. "Was it a nasty rumor, that Walmart employee's can't say "Merry Christmas", I ask.

She replied that they can only reply "Merry Christmas", because some people are not Christians and saying "Merry Christmas" would be offensive.

I told her I was sad, and I sorry that the company restricted them.

Then I told her "Merry Christmas" and she smiled and replied the same.

I thought of many ways to react about this changing world and in specific ---Walmart & Me!

Many things crossed my mind,

Stop shopping there!

Tell every worker "Merry Christmas"

Talk to the Manager!

Write the head office.

Just be mad!

But as I walked to the car, I recalled that student and our conversation in class.

No one can take away how you choose to act and whose you are!

That, I decided, is what a person's to do!

and write Walmart...

A Strangers Help!

2010-12-10T16:05:00.000-08:00

Every year we have the privilege to buy Christmas gifts for children in need. This year I chose 2 boys. Their list was short and vague. A "game" was on the list of an 8 yr old boy. So, I decided to just see if any handheld games were within my budget. I quickly knew that it was not an option. When in Game Stop, a young man overheard me tell who I was shopping for. I left the store knowing that I would need to go buy a board game. Then I was stopped by this man. He ask if I would take his money, he was a Christian and wanted to do his part. He wanted to buy this child a used DS system. I was shocked and grateful, as he handed $100 to purchase the system. He also showed me the appropriate games to buy for an 8 yr old.

I, now feel like a child who has been handed the moon. I am so grateful to Jose' for helping make this a wonderful Christmas for an 8 yr old boy.

God bless you, Jose' as you blessed a young boy.

The Recipe Box

2010-12-09T15:48:00.000-08:00

I was helping my Mother move and one evening decide to go through one of her recipe boxes. You know, the kind that has recipes on all sorts of paper and from lots of friends. This box ended up being a treasure chest, of sorts.

As I sorted through the recipes, lots of yummy stuff, I found a recipe on the back of a Texaco receipt. Mom had paid $9.58 for 10 gallons of gas. Those were the days.

My Aunt had given Mom a "Useful Hint" index card. One hint was, "If a cracked dish is boiled in sweet milk for 45 min., the crack will be welded together, that it will be hardly visible, and will be so strong it will withstand usage as before."

I found the program for my grandfathers Memorial service. (Yes, Mom knew it was there and it would remain there.)

There was a church attendance card that my brother, Jim Bob had filled out. He was requesting. "a uthraley (youth rally) for 10 and 9 yr old boys.

A graduation booklet for JimBob had pages of words of wisdom. It was from Ralph and Mary, our precious friends. One of the quotes... " When God measures a Man, He puts the tape measure around his heart, not his head."

An index card had the "Religious" recipe. Mom said it was religious sauce and really good. The ingredients is definitely made for a church....

Religious

Boil for 5 minutes the following ...

5 lbs onion

2 cup sugar

1 cup brown sugar

1/3 cup salt

1/3 cup allspice

3 1/2 cups Jalapeno

1 cup water

1 quart vinegar

Add 1 gallon catsup and boil 5 more minutes

HUGE amount, I'm sure and Mom says very good!

Then I came across my Dad's work order binder. There was a 1952 paycheck stub for 2 weeks of work. He brought home $116. He had 2 daughters by then.

Inside this binder was my parents 1947 newspaper marriage announcement.

The heading was: Solemnize Ryan- Laird Rites in Home Ceremony Thursday.

Although the move made us bone tired, we enjoyed a lot of walks down memory lane.

So, grab your Mom's recipe box and find some treasures.

Whenever I see...

2010-12-02T04:49:00.000-08:00

Whenever I see a Texas license plate, it feels like home.

The car I rented in Oklahoma has a Texas license plate, and I got so excited.

Yesterday, I happen to see a person with a Texas drivers license, and wished I had mine back.

When people ask me where I'm from, I say where I live, but I'm a Texan.( that part is said with the Texas accent)

It fits me, it was a wonderful place to grow up, even in the windy flatland part of the state.

I want to be there more, to see the sunsets, to see the big open sky and to see tumble weeds.

I think I got the best of both worlds, because my Dad was an Okie. That meant that when we crossed the state line, we sing OKLAHOMA. I root for the Sooners. I feel privileged to have claims to both states. I often felt that it was the "okie" in my Dad that made him so cool.

Add to that, my east Texas roots, via Marcus. Another world, a slower pace, a friendlier people, ( all Texans are friendly) they are friendlier and beautiful trees. At first, I couldn't see anything for the trees, it was weird and a bit insulting to Marcus. But grow up in Amarillo and you will understand.

I am thankful to get to live other places, nice, good places....

but, whenever I see Texas stuff, I feel a bit of home.

Texas, my home!

Auto Show and Wedding Rings

2010-11-28T14:25:00.001-08:00

For years, Marcus had one of his kids to join him at the Auto Shows. Now, It's my turn to be his date and scout out all the cars. Have to say, their is finally a car that makes a place in the front floor board for a purse, Finally! So congrats to Toyota and Lexus. A major selling point for me.

As we were leaving, we stopped to hear a sales pitch on car wash & wax. The salesman ask if he could clean our wedding bands. They are close to matching, so he ask Marcus how long he has had this ring. "20 years", Marcus replied. However, I replied that my ring is 36 yrs old , and Marcus lost his original.

I course that opened up the tease of "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas."

(Kids, you will love this) He then ask Marcus if he liked the result of cleaning his ring, would Marcus, shout a "WOW" or double" WOW" You can see his response, right? Gotta love that man.

The rings are almost like new, but I thought to myself, "If that man only knew..."

Yes, Marcus left his wedding band in a hotel and did his best to recover it.

Then he got his job at SWA, and was loving every minute of a dream come true for him.

But then he "did" the best compliment, I've ever been given...

He went to get a new matching ring made.

He didn't want others to wonder if he was married.

Who would have thought that an afternoon at an Auto Show, would remind me of such a sweet act of goodness. I am loved and it is so good.

Laughed til I cried....

2010-11-26T13:23:00.000-08:00

I bet you know how that feels. It starts out a laugh from deep inside, a side-splitting laugh, and for some, a wet your pants laugh... until you cry. Well, today it was different for me...I laughed because a good story teller told a great story...

His 13 yr old son had a serious discussion about "God's purpose for him." This made the Dad every proud, that his son was feeling God's presents.
Father..."So, tell me about this, Son."
Son..."I feel God wants me to have a dirt bike."
Father..."Seriously, Son?"
Son... (He was serious) "I have prayed for one, then started dreaming about one, then they seemed to be everywhere I look. I really think it's God's way of saying I need a dirt bike."
Father... "Well Son, I've never thought that would be something from God. I'll tell you what, let me pray about it, too"

That story was followed by this one...
Father... I remember driving in the car and my daughter said she wanted to ask me about something.
Turning the radio down, he said, "What is it, honey?"
"Well, I've been wondering how to be saved?"
After, that discussion, his 5 yr old son said, "Dad, I have a question, too."
Wow, thought the Dad, my kids are really thinking about God. "Yes, Son, what is it?"
Well, Dad, you know, I wonder if monkeys feet are hands, or do they have 4 hands and no feet."
"That, is a very good question, the father replied. I'll have to think about that."

It takes a good story teller to get you laughing out loud, and when that happened to me, I started crying...because I suddenly miss Adam. I miss his gift of story telling. I miss how he made me laugh until I couldn't breath. I miss how huge life was when around him. I miss his love....
I miss Adam!

Christmas pieces...and A.D.D. writings

2010-11-16T12:53:00.000-08:00

Lana just left, after a 3 day visit and that girl knows how to get things done...

Christmas tree up ...check

Tree decorated ....check

Stockings hung...check

House decorated....check

Marcus Southwest Airline ornaments found...check

A new SWA tree....check

A mini-tree for Morgandy to decorate...check

Gifts wrapped...check

A day of shopping....check

Returning stuff (Already)...check

Playing cards...Check

Good lunch and visit at Chick-fi-la....check

A Honey Baked Ham....YUM!

Just plain FUN! Happens with all our kids!

Love our time together and she still makes us laugh.

She wins the "longest telephone conversation with Morgandy."

We talked of pass Christmas, where did they all go so fast?

I remember 2 "smart ideas" I had in gift wrapping .

1. Use cereal boxes for the clothes or some toys. They work great!

My kids became use to unwrapping a Raisin Bran box to find clothes or books in them.

But, when we had a Christmas party, the young girl thought she was getting cereal and the disappointment was instant. Lesson learned. Use the cereal boxes for my kids only.

2. I didn't want my kids to know which gift belonged to them. So I had a terrific idea to put Christmas stickers on the wrapped presents, instead of name tags. Then Christmas morning, I would tell them if they had the Santa stickers, Angel stickers or Snowman stickers. I still love that idea, BUT almost always had problems remembering who had which stickers. I heard lots of "Mother!" That's how it is living with a Mom who has A.D.D.

If my camera was working, I would share some of my favorite ornaments. I could never have a themed tree, would miss the hand-made or home-made ornaments to much.

So, it is starting to look a lot like Christmas around here, and it sounds strange to think that the lemons will be ready to pick as soon as Morgandy and Bretton get here.

Thanks again, Lana-Bear! It was delightful having you and "Maggie Mae" come for a bit!

Don't you just love that name....at least until this baby is born.

Myra Dawn

2010-11-04T03:17:00.000-07:00

You are our wonderful beginning....

We love the gift of having you in our life.

Being around you lights up the room.

We love you and see you do great things.

Happy Birthday, Sweet girl!

Alex & Prince Charles aka Chuck

2010-10-09T10:43:00.000-07:00

Another fast & furious visit with Alex. Always good to be with my favorite son.

His puppy, Chuck, is just the cutest and sweetest.

I am so excited to have them home for Christmas.

Alex is a co-dog sitter, with his room-mate.

He is holding Jack, who wanted to be included.

I also got to see Alex in his current play,

Dirty, Rotten, Scoundrel

It was a great show, and we know who is my MVP and VIP.

It is so rewarding for me to see his hard work look so effortless.

Alex, really, how do you do that?

So what are they saying?

2010-10-08T14:20:00.000-07:00

Lady..."How do you get your hair so shiny?"

me.. "Not sure, maybe the hair product.

Someday, I will quit coloring it and then it will be gray and frizzy.

Lady...."I hate it when I turn around and people see me much older than my hair looks."

*******

Marcus... "I wish I hadn't seen the recording of my golf stroke, I don't have time to fix it."

( He's in the finals of a match play at the local golf course)

me.... "I don't believe golf should be so technical."

Marcus - Jokingly...." Like your brain."

Me..."Explain that!" :)

Marcus... "No, I don't have anything else to say." :)

********

So, I was checking into Southwest Airlines to go to Chicago on an e-pass.

Gate Agent ..."Are you the employee?'

Me ...."No"

Gate Agent..."Are you the mother."

Me... "I am a mother, but the wife of the employee."

Gate Agent...""So, he married a normal one."

Me... wordless....

Gate agent..."Oh, you know, we tend to marry within the company, but my wife is a nurse."

*********

I'm beginning to think there is more to these conversations....but mostly it's funny!?

Do you ever feel like that?

Funny Preacher Stories

2010-10-04T07:30:00.000-07:00

Recently a former preacher returned to visit. I forgot how fun this man is. He told of a wedding he took part in. The bride was Dave Ramsey's niece. However, this preacher was mistaken as Dave Ramsey, with Ramsey in the same room. One admirer ask him if there was an alternative to investing in his 401k. Mark replied that it was a good investment, but he might like 722(?) also. ( However, he didn't give the details that this was a popular song for C of C....Our God is alive.)

The man was appreciative as he walked away.

Yesterday, our minister told of his love for chocolate glazed donuts. Seeing only one remaining in the church office, before service on Wednesday night, he knew it was calling his name. He was willing to share it with a friend, but after that offer was refused, he ate it.

Heading to class, he stopped by the resource room, to say "HI" It was brought to his attention that he had "A friend on his shirt." Looking down, he saw something black ( chocolate icing?) and said he would take care of that. He picked it off his shirt and ate it, and as it crunched, he heard someone say, "It was a bug!" He did his best to remove it, using one of the ladies diet coke.

I'm thinking, one less love bug...glad they are finally going away, but sorry that Cary mistook it for chocolate .

There are many times when the best we can do is laugh at ourselves...and share with others.

My little models

2010-10-01T12:46:00.003-07:00

My girls adored their older cousins, Teresa & Tina.

One day Teresa decided to use them as models for her

photography class.

Lana...1982

Myra...wearing her favorite worn out hand-me-down gown.

I love these memories... and so thankful that they

had wonderful cousins to look up to.

A bit distracted

2010-09-12T17:22:00.000-07:00

There are times at church when I get irritated that I get distracted, but today, the distractions were sweet.

I noticed a little 4 yr old girl, wrap her arm around her mother as she sang, "The joy of the Lord, will be my strength...." This mother with 3 children under 6 yrs of age, is holding down fort while her husband is in Iraq...he has been gone 9 months. I know that Hannah has no idea that Jesus is the strength that makes this separation bearable.

Later, I noticed a young girl, about 8 or 9 yrs old. She took her grandmothers checkbook out and started writing the check for contribution. What a blessing, learning to give. Her grandmother is a precious example of giving, as she is raising this young girl.

Wow, I noticed a beautiful toddler, seemed like she was a baby just yesterday. Having a communion cup to lick clean, must have been a treat for her....someday she will know so much more about this emblem. Her parents and grandparents worship together, ... she is blessed.

Marcus holds my hand, with every prayer, and sometimes I think nothing of it, but today, it was a reminder that we are united in our faith. What a sweet gift.

As we sang, "Lord, reign in Me, reign in my heart..." I recalled the beauty of all the Cathedrals, and thought if that song had been playing in such a magnificent place...it would focus on what matters.

Some days a bit of distraction can turn into a blessing...that's how it felt for me today.

Movin' around Capri

2010-09-11T15:42:00.000-07:00

Anytime we saw this cab, men were taking pictures of it.

Traveling around the island, this is what I call 1 -1/2 lane road.

At night time we notices a smaller boat leaving this yacht...

we watched as young kids (from the yacht) ran around

and played at the beach

in the bottom corner of this picture.

Beautiful view as we waited for our check.

Beautifully different

2010-09-11T11:17:00.000-07:00

I don't love the unknown of other cultures,

and there was plenty that I wasn't expecting when we spent

10 days in Italy. I had not researched anything, so the fact

that Cathedrals drew the biggest tourist attraction was a wonderful treat.

Anyone wearing tank tops or shorts, had to cover up, to enter any of these

Cathedrals. So the scarf vender's made good money at these locations.

I wanted to know the purpose behind each emblem or design,

and the detailed beauty was overwhelming. It struck me that the beauty

within the walls, was massive, but nothing compared to what

God would want from the walls of our soul.

We ask locals about the best place to eat. We were surprised

that what we experienced, did not have the flavor of our

American /Italian food. We were never offered pesto dip with

the bread,(not sure they used garlic) the salad was basic lettuce, tomato, carrots

in all 5 cities, and we were to make our dressing from

Olive oil and balsamic Vinegar. I loved the pizza.

Breakfast blew us away. There were more desserts offered

each morning, than in a Luby's Cafeteria line.

Cereal spoons were always Tablespoons. We needed to

specify "No fizz, No gas or No bubbles", when ordering water.

It seemed we waited 30 minutes for our check

in very restaurant.

This was our Lido/Venice breakfast view.

We used the train to travel from Rome, to

Florence, to Venice, to Naples, then the ferry to

Capri. The train had no trouble staying on schedule.

I think that the time at each connecting station

may have been 3 minutes. When time to get off, you don't

fiddle around. Trying to take pictures of the beautiful

country side, at the speed we went, seemed futile.

I think this statue was outside of the Venice train station.

This beach was down the hill from our hotel, in Capri.

Beaches were rare on the island. Marcus rented a scooter, and

that was our way to enjoy the beauty of Capri.

If we need to stop at a restroom, it was usually a pay toilet,

and the commode seat, was optional, hanging on the wall.

It was a wonderful experience and adventure.

I love that Marcus found hotels off the beaten path.

I just wish the pictures reflected the true beauty.

A little bit of Italy

2010-09-07T12:49:00.000-07:00

The tower of Pisa

Walking around Venice

This small island known for it's colorful houses.

An alternative to screen doors...

Dear Miss Morgandy

2010-08-14T11:32:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite things about being your Grams,

is shopping for clothes. Many times, I have past the girls

department, glad that you are still a toddler.

But, today was different....

I past the toddler department and shopped in

the girls department. I was not prepared for

the change. The clothes look to grown up.

So, even if I knew how fast your Mommy grew up,

It is surprising how fast you are changing, too.

and I love the way you are growing...

You are so nice to share....

You have a great imagination...

You are the best big sister...

And you are so brave.

Even though I will miss all the fun things about

your toddler years, I am thankful to watch you

grow into a beautiful, kind, considerate girl.

Keep up the good work, Morgandy!

Grams loves you!

Fun times

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Another great performance by our Favorite, in

"Jesus Christ, Superstar"

A Grand Ole Opry Welcome!

Such a cutie!

The rain won't stop our Picnic!

Happy Birthday, Nathan

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You are a great Uncle!

Thinking of you, makes Mo do the "Happy Dance"

and both Mo & B. will toot their horns for you

We hope you have a fantastic day!

Old things, New use!

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* pretend the pictures are here

Have a few new favorite things or old things used in a new way.

Shampoo bar....looks like a soap bar, but used as shampoo.

different bars, for different hair type....

one bar is worth 45-50 shampoo's

check them out online at the Basin store.

Aluminum foil....wadded in a ball and used as a grill rack cleaner

better than any brush I've ever used.

Ice cream scoop.... used as a dipper for the seedless watermelons.

still trying to perfect the pretty scoop.

Next Blog....on the tool bar above this blog...

Finding a lot of Christian post

inspired by .... www.smellingcoffeetoday.blogspot.com

www.Bella-Mella.com

Also being around to go to the Farmers Market on week-ends is a real treat.

Gotta go scoop some watermelon, slice the pineapple, and bring out the blackberries., grapes and oranges. It's a perfect summer blend.

I didn't know...

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For now I am at a lost for words.
She was a co-worker, a friend that showed me how to teach with love.
Not that I didn't know how, but her skills were not enhanced by a teaching degree, but by her relationship with God and love for others.
It was the first time I thought, "I have the degree, but she has the ability."
I learned so much from her, and she was the best teacher I've ever had.
I was so blessed to watch her love a room full of 4 yr old"s.
She was "In demand."
Parents were anxious to get on the list for Brenda.
She brightened our day, she brighten my life.
We became friends, lasting friends...that lost touch.
This week, I thought about her.
I needed to talk to her.
She was just the friend that would know and understand.

But, what I didn't know was that she died last year, 3 weeks after being diagnosed with cancer.
Her son said she did not suffer.

She knew where and how it would be when she died.
As a young mother, she had surgery and "Died" seeing Jesus and her Dad.
She heard that it wasn't time yet. BUT, she loved the indescribable peace that came from that experience.
She thought others would call her crazy, but felt I would understand.

It was a gift she gave me, because I know she had peace in the unknown.
God is so good to bless me with amazing people...
Brenda Barrett, a friend forever.
I miss her.
I'm sorry that I didn't know...
But thankful that we will reunite, by HIS grace.

Thank you, God for Brenda Barrett.

Blessed is the Man...

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who loves his children

and precious grandchildren.
I am so grateful for you!
Happy Father's Day, Marcus

My Daddy and His Sons!

2010-05-16T13:11:00.000-07:00

Today, I read a Father's Day card...it said
"Dad, I know you always wanted the best for me."
I have the best! I have YOU!
He taught me so much, and he never met a stranger
Looking at this picture, I think if we said,
"Good catch, Dad!" he would reply,
"Yes, I am!"
(most of the pictures we have of Dad
include fish or his grandchildren)

My 2 younger brothers, Darby & Jim Bob
not only share Dad's love for fishing, but
have his gift for making others feel better,
just being around them.

If a father hears, "He's a chip off the old block!"
it may not always be a compliment...BUT
Dad would be so proud of these 2 good, kind men,
and yes Dad, they are a chip off the old block!

Dad, I have the best....Your love & legacy!
I know God delights in you!

It occured to me...

2010-05-14T04:58:00.000-07:00

Sweet Morgandy & PaPa watching T.V.

possibly watching Dora the Explorer
which is random to this post, except
I recall Morgandy repeating Dora,
"NO sniping Sniper!"
"NO sniping Sniper!"
"NO sniping Sniper!"
(Sniper is a little fox that always
causes trouble.)

Yesterday I was going to post on FB,
" I am tired of hearing people gripe
about people who gripe!"

Then it occurred to me that I needed
to stop...stop griping.

O.k. I told myself, start stopping!

Then I felt rushed cooking supper and
heard myself fail time after time.

So, last night I went to bed thinking...
"NO griping Griper!"
"NO griping Griper!"
"NO griping Griper!"

I woke up this morning thinking the same thing,
and I haven't even started the day.

Prayers appreciated!

Happy Birthday, Alex ( part 1)

2010-05-01T03:46:00.000-07:00

Hope you keep that spirit of fun.

And continue to learn from others.
(Watching your Dad draw an airplane
at your pre-K valentine party.)

stand up to your fears
( like standing on this lava rock in Hawaii)
(12 yrs old)

and always know how much fun you are,
as you remember the good times.
(gathering with sisters and cousins
after Myra's Spring Sing.)

Memories of Alex -part 2

2010-05-01T03:24:00.000-07:00

This is Lana's Birthday greeting
to you, on your 12th B-day

Our 7 week old adorable boy!

Never a cuter Peter Pan.
4 yrs old

You are the perfect ending and
and gift, in your family. (12 yrs)

Love you bunches & more...
Have a Happy Birthday!

Do We Get To Choose?

2010-04-27T04:21:00.000-07:00

Brent Adams....
considers it pure joy, with the trial he faces,
knowing that the testing of his faith develops
perseverence, which works to grow his
relationship with God and share it will
others.

As I listen to this young man speak of his life
changing event, a dirt bike ride that he had
spent his life enjoying, I had a question creep
up with tears.

Do we get to choose?
Do we get to choose the kind of trails that
come our way? Mostly not!

But after his time of anger, pleading, bargaining,
crying and begging, I pray to live with the same
outcome as Brent strives to do.

Against all odds, he walks!
Against all hardships, he knows God's love.
Against all limitations, he has none with God.

Was this the way he wanted to testify God's goodness.
He didn't get to choose, but now cries with thanksgiving
because of God's love for him.

We may not get to choose where we are, but how
are.

God bless you, Brent!

Happy Birthday Lana

2010-04-13T17:10:00.000-07:00

These pictures show your fun-loving ways.
Your love for family is just the best!

I love you and look forward to many more
great adventures with you!
Hope you know the goodness that is Lana!

Hands Down

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Hands Down

2010-03-21T10:33:00.000-07:00

Another sweet birthday with lots of love and good wishes.
Watching Morgandy sing "Supercalifragalistic" to her brother.
Telling Morgandy that Bretton was coming to say good morning to her ,
"But Grams, he is a baby and he can't talk."
It's close to a perfect day, just need all my kids
gathered in the same nest for perfection.

I have had lots of great b-day gifts and memories.

But the picture below tops all, hands down.
On my 4th b-day, I got a plastic fishing pole and a baby brother.
Darby is someone that blesses people day by day.
When Alex was in 4th grade, he told me he hoped
to grow up and be like Uncle Darby.
I then knew that my young man was on the right course.

John Darby, I love you and yes you are the greatest gift,
hands down.

Who's Who

2010-03-18T18:09:00.000-07:00

Morgandy & Bretton? or Bretton & Morgandy?

Meet Bretton Keane

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Bretton Keane
3 -17-10
7 lbs
Everyones good!

Bretton Keane

2010-03-18T13:04:00.000-07:00

Tis the season!

2010-03-13T16:20:00.001-08:00

Leaving Houston didn't mean leaving the Astro's. We get to see plenty of Spring Training games. It is not the same as going to Minutemaid Park. But we still get to sing Deep in the Heart of Texas during the 7th inning stretch. That helps make us feel at home.

Todays game had 2 distractions.

It was so exciting to see the whole stadium stand as Pres George H W Bush and First Lady Barbara came to see the game. He was so gracious to many around him, and 95% of people remained standing until he was seated.
We see them often at games in Houston, but this was different. The respect of the crowd was so special, in this smaller setting.

The other distraction haunts me. I just happened to notice a young boy (maybe 10) sitting in front of me. He held a sample size of Purell Hand cleaner. He kept opening the lid and playing like it was a microphone, then I noticed that he was sniffing it. Later he put some on his sleeve and would sniff it. It was so disturbing! He was acting very strange, maybe autistic, but quickly but the bottle away when his older brother took notice.

I have googled it and found that the 2 oz bottle of Purell has 62% alcohol in it and the equivalent to 4 shots of Vodka.

Even though the game ended with a comeback win by the Astro's, I walked away with guilt of a young boy, and a small bottle of hand cleaner. Wish I hadn't walked away!

We are Chosen...

2010-02-15T03:59:00.001-08:00

Each Sunday I take away something from worship that I want to stick with me. Sometimes it does and other times, life takes over.
Yesterday's worship gelled like no other, so I'd like to share.

Our text is Ephesians1: 3-14
vs. 4 For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight. In love He predestined us to be adopted as His sons through Jesus Christ , in accordance with His will and pleasure.

These two highlighted parts are rarely on my mind, but in yesterdays worship (the unplanned part) they showed up loud and clear.

As we sang "Revive us Again" I think back to little Lana picking that song every time we visited Marc's home church and her Uncle Craig would ask for song request.... chosen for His pleasure.

The older building next door, is now the Spanish Church. As we left to go to our Bible Class, there stood about 15 members from their church with signs "Free Hugs Here"...chosen for His pleasure.

In Bible Class we talked about loving others beyond the name on the building where they worship...chosen for His pleasure.

An invitation was extended to a Community Church with an outdoor baptistery , to use ours.
Six people were baptized*, five of them were homeless....chosen for His pleasure.

Next to our old building, the Spanish Church, sits a row of old portables classrooms, now known as Matthews Hope, a place for the homeless, run by 6 different churches in Winter Garden...chosen for His pleasure.

I have to say it's hard to see what pleasure God finds in me, but so thankful to be among others and see it come to life. It was a great day that I want to learn from and do differently.

* So as C. of C. members, we were clapping after the person was immersed, only to see that they were immersed 3 times, baptized into the Father, The Son and the Holy Spirit....covered in all.

We are Chosen...

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My Valentine

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The best thing about me, is you!

Love does not make the world go round,
love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
Thanks for choosing me to go along for this
crazy ride...it has been so much fun!
Love you more.....

Joy maker

2010-02-03T12:48:00.000-08:00

Our Lana has a love for fun.
Just ran across some of the evidence.

She got her Dad to help with this!
Who thinks these things up?
Can you guess what the sign really says?

Get these 2 beautiful cousins together
and they create a photo shoot of the
prom pictures that they never had.

The socks really make the outfit
complete.

I love that even in hard times,
this sweet lady finds fun.
Thank you, Lanabear!

If he looks like Morgandy...

2010-02-03T12:26:00.000-08:00

As we anticipate the arrival of Morgandy's
little brother, we wonder if he will have
some of her features. If he does,
he may look like this minus the pink blanket.

Welcome Bella

2010-01-22T05:35:00.000-08:00

Bella Marie Langford
Jan. 16th, 2010*
9lb 3oz --19 1/2 inches
Kampala, Uganda, East Africa

Big brother, Eli and Kym...the Mom!

True sweetness!
So maybe she was 10 days late,
but 6 hrs labor and 3 pushes is a lot to brag about.
Also had her 1st taxi cab ride at 10 hrs old.

Don't know if she will ever compete with
big brother, Noah's, expressions...but
she will give him lots more and better
expressions in years to come.
And Ben will never be the same.

* my "comfort thought" about Bella's birthday
is that Adam wanted smiles and sweetness
to be the focus of this day...besides all the stuff
that he left us to smile about. I just hate that
he left us, but will honor this "comfort thought"

I think he would want us to tell Bella that she
came just at the right time to fill our hearts
with extra love...from Adam.

Maybe I seem crazy...:) but I have many
"comfort thoughts" lately and may share
some later. For now, welcome Bella, you
are a blessing from God and you touch our
hearts and make us smile.

Add 20 to grow on....

2010-01-14T03:59:00.000-08:00

Do you remember getting a Birthday spanking and then they added one swat to "grow on"?

This post is following the 60 list to Marcus from his 3 amazing children...
my 20 to grow on..

1. Having 3 great kind children!
2. The date where we flew 20 miles to eat fancy at DFW, but not enough money for the dinner, when check came.
3. The compliments on disastrous dinners.
4. Compassion for the flaws...huge attribute
5. Teaching the unteachable.
6. your "Oh Pooh" phase
7. Watching others admire your work & character
8. Asking if your ship came in, when talking about the mail.
9. Recording 2 songs for me. (Elvis has nothing on you)
10. Deciding to run for City Counsel.
11. Watching you hold your children for the 1st time...they had your heart.
12. The hot-air balloon ride.
13. Hearing you talk like Donald Duck to Morgandy
14. Never giving up on your ship...it did come in.
15. Pitching for the winning softball team.(at 59)
16. Many many dates in our 35 years,
17. When I talk about if I ever win the lottery...a lottery ticket appears.
18. Getting me a new car...the Marcus way
19. A huge bond with nieces and nephew...an extra blessing for me.
20.Your commitment, contentment and compassion....how blessed I am!

Love you and extra privileged to be by your side
for always & ever

Wish I could fix it....

2010-01-10T11:15:00.000-08:00

I over heard this conversation recently between a lady & the person she was pushing in a wheelchair...
"You just have to decide to be happy."
"I know, I just wish I could live with someone I know."
"Well, I found two extra Christmas gifts that I am going to give you."

My heart hurt so much for both of them, wish I could fix it.

Today, I heard that a young man at church, is leaving his wife and 3 children(under 5), to spend a year in Iraq.

Wish I could fix it.

When life keeps bucking loved ones and times are hard.

Wish I could fix it.

What I CAN FIX...

A heart of gratitude that God is in control, and I can petition HIS love and peace in all situations.
And show my love and concern when possible.

Playing with Papa

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Although it was time to say goodbye,
Papa didn't want the fun times to end.

What to Eat.?

2009-12-15T16:31:00.000-08:00

Sunday morning, I found Morgandy spending
5 minutes staring at these boxes

So here's how the problem of what to eat was solved.

Moments with Morgandy ...part 1

2009-12-15T16:26:00.000-08:00

Waiting for Pre-school programs to begin...
she gave dramatic performance...priceless

Now time to celebrate a job well done.

Back home and willing to pose again

I loved my time with this precious girl.
(and her parents)
When she senses that
something may be wrong, you might
hear her say...
"Remember, God made you to be happy!"
I love her sweet compliments, such as,
"Oh Grams, that is so nice of you."

Moments with Morgandy...part 2

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Decorate cookies

Decorate Gingerbread house

Decorate Christmas tree

Not sure about preforming at Preschool

My Mom....

2009-11-17T03:31:00.000-08:00

Mom known as Grando with Lana

Mom has been here for a visit and
is has been a joy to hear the funny stories she
retells. I will someday write them down, cause
they are a connection to the past.
Recently I mentioned that homeowners insurance
can be difficult to get in this area, for new homeowners.

She recalled their insurance agent calling Dad to
ask about the wiring in their old home.
Dad's response, "It was wired the same year Joan (Mom)
was born, and I will replace it when I see that she needs
re-wiring."

I wish we could have her legs rewired, she struggles to
stand...that is hard to watch.

Stay tuned for other Grando stories, or share your favorite.

Love you, Grando!

Happy Birthday Myra

2009-11-04T08:29:00.000-08:00

Nov. 4, 1977
God blessed us beyond...
and she is far beyond...
When times were rough
and I lacked wisdom (A lot)
I ask God to be with our
precious kids in spite of us...
HE did and She is a precious child of God

Her sweet Morgandy copies
her Mothers nurturing ways

A beautiful daughter
and loving wife.

A fun sister for Lana &Alex

A loyal friend...

Thank YOU, GOD for the honor
and privilege of loving Myra

A Mom's Wisdom

2009-10-28T01:51:00.000-07:00

Adam, Jonathan, Leta & Ben

I've learned so much from my sister, (sometimes a little to late)
We love to share kids stories, even though they are no longer kids,
and recently she recalled one about her 3 amazing boys.
They were all being grounded for something and the punishments
were as follows....
Ben...no soccer
Adam ...no friends or phone calls
Jonathan...no Nintendo

She knew she had the punishments right when Adam approached
her with a plan.
"Mom, You know how the Bible says to bear each others burdens?
Well, that's what we want to do, I'll take Jon punishment, he
will take Ben's and Ben will take mine, then we will be obeying God."

He left the room and Kathy heard him say, "See guys, I told you that
wouldn't work."

A comfort to me, is thinking that Adam is up in heaven and hearing Jesus say,
"Good try, Adam."

Happy Birthday Morgandy

2009-10-25T16:59:00.000-07:00

The sweetest baby, just loved by all.

Before we knew it, you had your 1st birthday, and it was a fun day.

Then you turned 2....

Today you are our big 3 year old.
It is so much fun to be with you.
We hope you had a terrific 3rd Birthday
We love you for always and ever!
Grams & Papa

Her response...

2009-10-21T09:03:00.000-07:00

I loved spending 6 days with Morgandy, just wish I'd had a camera. However the conversations we had were a sweet as any pictures.

About Golf...I was watching the Presidential Open, when Morgandy decided the best place to hit the golf ball was in the big hole, "Sand Trap. I explained that it wasn't the way the game was played. Her response, "When I get big and play golf with Papa, I'm going to hit it in the big hole."

About time out....It was getting close to bedtime, and I thought time-out may be in order.
Her response, "I know, you can read me a book, say my prayers, give me a kiss and hug, then you can have time out."

About the bed time stories... the Bearenstein Bears and Pharaoh had not made good choices.
Her response, "They all need to calm down, (Zen style) hands out, eyes closed and say "HUMMMM"

About going to the bathroom....I suggested she use the bathroom before she put on her puffy Cinderella dress.
Her response, "I did! Are you kidding me?"
"No, I said, " but I think your kidding me."

About the stairs.... I was bringing up her stroller after a walk to the park.
Her response, from the top landing, "Come on Grams, You can do it!"
I was bringing up groceries and from the top landing...
"I am King of the Castle, and your a dirty rascal."

About the puzzles...She would dump all 3 puzzles out at once and even through she ask if I wanted to help her, I learned that I needed to know her system...which ended up being , just sit and watch. When the cardboard pieces bent a bit, she decided they needed tape.

Bringing a huge suitcase made a wonderful boat for all the dolls and playing soccer with the ball, really was playing hide and seek with it. Eating food from her play kitchen, we had to take turns choosing healthy food, although pizza qualified.

There was a lot of, "Don't help me!"

I loved it all, and look forward to the new things Morgandy learns and does. She is a delight!

WTR

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WT Queen, Kathy Laird, (Sister-in law) host of the event

Darby & Brenda Laird, Bro & Sis-in-law

Jim Bob, little Brother, and host of WTR

Every Sept, my brother, JimBob and friends
gather for a week or week-end of camping,
fishing and camp fire performance. It's a real treat
to come together and enjoy a little time
with each other... a great family time, plus 100 more .

Names

2009-09-19T05:24:00.000-07:00

Recently I have heard others consider the names
of their children...a job in itself. I was ask how I decided
on the names for our children.
I knew that being one of 3 Debby's (in school) each year
wasn't what I wanted for my children.
So, I checked off names in a name book,
and Marcus only read those names
To my surprise, the meaning really mattered to me.

Myra Dawn
Wonderful Beginning
(and she is)

Lana Carol...a light in the dark
(that's true)

Alex Laird
Defender of People
( definitely a Man with compassion)

Both Fathers

2009-09-06T11:40:00.000-07:00

Today in worship, we sang, I KNOW THAT MY REDEEMER LIVES!
For me and my siblings, that song will bring back memories of our Dad. He not only loved singing that song, but totally live it. Do you know how much his confidence of a loving God lowered the fear factor in our young minds. Dad understood that those attending church were an "Imperfect people loved by a Perfect God"
Thanks to my Dad for showing us the assurance of eternal life.
What an awesome gift from both Fathers!

There are other precious memories of songs:

I don't even know how she learned this hymn, but at 2 1/2yrs old, Myra held her baby sister, Lana and sang, "Sing to me of Heaven, sing that song of peace, from the tolls that bind me, it will bring release..." That song is very heavy, but all I saw at that time were 2 adorable girls, a gift from God.

Recently while waiting at the bus stop, Morgandy stared sing "Blue skies and rainbows and sunbeams from heaven, are what I can see when the Lord is living in me..." A seed is planted...
My nephew, Ben, would sing himself to sleep with this song.

Lana use to request a song, when we attended the country church of Marc's family. As a child, she always ask to sing, "Revive Us Again"...because she loved the lyrics, Hallelujah Thine the glory, Hallelujah, Amen...

When in Africa, I heard Ben & Kym use a hymn as part of the boys bedtime routine...such a comfort for those boys, to unite in song with their parents, a song about God's love for them.

Worship songs are a powerful instrument in our relationship with our Father, and for me, it is a gift from both fathers.

I am thankful that so many worship hymns have shaped our lives.

Noah Ark and more

2009-08-31T07:17:00.001-07:00

through Morgandy's play

God said load the ark with animals
and food, so my plastic food will do.
Wonder who will eat the ice cream cone?

so finally we can leave the ark,
and I know there was a rainbow

on the mountain, we feel like
"Kings of the world"

Papa didn't come on this helicopter,
because "the door is closed and
it is to small."

Priceless!

2009-08-28T11:03:00.000-07:00

Everyone wants a picture of my shirt,
here's half of it, covering up "Big"

A greeting for her Daddy
"Daddy's home!"

The wheels on the bus go round & round,
and Papa talks like Donald Duck
and wiggles his ears.

Cover my month when I laugh out of control,
so I can sound like an Indian

My after nap video time.

why does everyone want to see my
"BIG SIS" shirt?

I loved it when Morgandy wasn't understanding
what I said and let me know...
"I don't know what your talking about!"

or when Myra and I sat in the backseat with her,
and Marcus and Patrick were in the front seat...
"Look, we make a triangle with Daddy and Papa"
(Almost right)

or, when something was said and her response was...
"That sounds like a good idea!"

It's the time together that is priceless!

She would like this.

2009-08-20T04:29:00.000-07:00

Bertelle... Behind her new home.
With her brother, Owen Craig at Mackey Reunion
Easter, 1997
With Marcus at the Mackey Reunion

I bought a book while in Savannah, and think of Bertelle
everytime I read it.
Bertelle would agree with George Washington's
110 Rules of Civility and Decent Behaviour...
Here's a few of them.

1.Every action done in company ought to be with
some sign of respect to those who are present.

2. When in company, put not your hands to any part
of the body, not usually discovered.

22. Show not yourself glad at the misfortune of
another, though he were your enemy.

44. When a man does all he can though it succeeds
not well blame not him that did it.

58. Let your conversation be without malice or envy,
for it is a sign of a tractable and commendable nature;
and in all cases of passions admit reason to govern.

73. Think before you speak; pronounce not imperfectly
nor bring out your words too hastily, but orderly & distinctly.

Not only would she like the wording of these rules,
but she mastered the context of them.

I love that sweet memories of our love ones comes
from simply reading something or seeing a plant,
hearing a song, or watching the same traits in other
family members.

Thank you, Ben

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for being a great husband & father

For your compassion for others
and passion to teach and learn.

This week, I have taken your words to heart.
You came home from a rough day
and I ask you if stuff like this makes you ready to
return to America.
You replied with great wisdom...

"You don't quit just because things are hard."

Even though life is so good to me,
I don't like when stuff is hard.
So, for now, I will take your advice,
knowing that my "Hardships" are foolish
compared to what you & Kym endure
daily to show God's love to others.

Like Nathan, when I think of you
and my entire family,
It's just right to say,
"Good Job, God!"

Love You!

Facebook Thoughts

2009-08-15T20:24:00.000-07:00

Today, I read a few entries on my Face book that are inspiring, thought provoking and encouraging.

**One friend ask who had read the health reform bill? Wow! that opened a Pandora's box!
One comment had some weight to it. "Consider that the Constitution is only 6 pages long and can be condensed into wallet size and has been a source of wisdom through all these years. If that is effective, why does a health bill need to be 1000 plus pages."

(I tried reading some of the bill.... but my real beef is the "Get 'er done, now" mentality. A reform would be great, but not force fed again.)

** A friend shared that she was checking out at the grocery store, realized her wallet was in her husbands car, at work. She apologized to the cashier and knew some of the stuff would need to be restocked. However, the lady behind her insisted on paying for the groceries and would not give any personal info for reimbursement.

** My friend, Lisa, posted a great video to view. This Should Keep Us All Thinking It tells the story of a professor that was known to intimidate and berate students who believed in God.
A friend of Lisa made this comment..."As a teenager, whenever I would argue my faith as an atheist, I would have a vitriolic, condescending, angry attitude. Then one day I ask myself, "If there is no God, then why am I so mad at him?" That question started his journey to know and love God.

Keeping in touch and encouraged, is a Face Book benefit.

Lightening Strike

2009-08-13T16:27:00.000-07:00

We have 2 huge trees in our small backyard,
But this one is actually on the golf course,
and has been struck by lightening several times.
Last night when lightening struck it,
(the lightening) bounce over the side of our house,
causing our master bathroom,
formal dining room, pantry and one lamp outlet to loose
power. Then it jumped across two rooms and took the garage
refrigerator out.
It was crazy loud, with a whistling sound afterwards.
I waited on my handy man to get home, but the breaker
won't reset and needs a professional.
All I can say is stay tough tree, and stand your ground.
It is a monster beside our house and needs to stay put!

Something Borrowed, Something Blue!

2009-08-08T16:24:00.000-07:00

Marcus & Debby
July 26, 1974

Mini facts:
For H.S. Graduation I received 2 pair contact lens,
Chose a green pair and blue pair
By College graduation, I was down to 1 green tint and 1 blue tint.
While in college, unknown to me, my Dad got false teeth.
Cleaned teeth in Parkay Butter bowl.

So, unlike brides today, I did my hair myself,
(I know you can tell)
So off I go into our only bathroom, but forget my contact case.
Hey, will just put them in the parkay bowl, no problem.

Went to curl my hair and sit under my hood dryer.
Meanwhile, Dad went in to clean his teeth.
I went to get my contacts, "Hey who messed with the
parkay bowl?"
Dad told me that was his bowl, and he cleaned his teeth.
No glasses, a real headache will come my way.
Marc saws the old pipes apart to no avail.

My sister, Kathy, had her contacts, but not wearing them.
No such thing as contacts available in the Dr. office.
A bit blurry, but I wore my sister blue contacts and
did not have a headache.

That was my something borrowed, something blue.

Is It Really?

2009-07-28T08:26:00.000-07:00

Has it really been 35 yrs of marriage to this
good looking, kind man? It has been an adventure
and I am thankful that God showed favor on me
and blessed me abundantly.
So, to celebrate, we went to Savannah.

After our River boat dinner on the Savannah
River, we enjoyed the cool breezy sunset.

City Market..fun place, good music
and good food, adds to good fun!

Sunday lunch...so good!
We have been off all desserts
this summer, but agreed that our anniversary
would be the exception. So, dessert first, then
we needed to order an appetizer, so we would
feel better.

It was a great week-end and
looking forward to many, many more.

Chose my Love!
Love my Choice!

Death by Wallpaper?

2009-07-24T05:40:00.000-07:00

Martine Stowers Beauchamp
1875- 1961

Death by Wallpaper? so claims my Great Grandmother.

I ordered a book of my Mom's family, and most stories
were documented by my great grandmother.
I love her looking glass to the past.
She wrote the following about clothing fashion...

"Once a cousin came over 100 miles from her farm to
visit us. As she undressed in front of us,
we ask why she used padding to amplify her breast.
She remarked succinctly,
"Why you dumb dearies,
what God has forgotten, I supply with cotton."

When Martine was 15, she heard that girls were
buying a yard of red wallpaper to make rosy cheeks and lips.
She remarked, "Guess it worked as such girls attracted numbers of male escorts.
To become exceedingly fair like a lily, a finely built handsome girl
to enhance her wonderful sylph like beauty of face and form
was in reality an arsenic addict (arsenic was an ingredient
in the wallpaper). Sadly, many girls were soon to answer the Last Call."

Because of our great Grandmother, the Stowers Family History
of Western Kentucky is alive with her stories.

Plain Crazy

2009-07-19T16:26:00.000-07:00

Meet Vulli Sophie Giraffe Teether

Top Baby Toy sale on Amazon
The crazy thing:

$19.95 new
or $17.49 used
anyone want a used teether

or willing to spend that much

Little Miss Look A Like

2009-07-17T04:01:00.000-07:00

Choose your Love...

2009-07-16T16:38:00.000-07:00

John and Joan Laird
July 3, 1947

I'm going to a wedding tomorrow for a couple
that we really don't know.
The Brides brother-in-law is my nephew,
so maybe we are kinda kin.

So got the gift and card.
The card will not be that different
from the other cards I send to newly weds!

I always have the same bit of advice,
that I came upon at just the time I needed it.
A young friend that has been married 6 yrs,
recently told her mother that she had a friend,
with marriage problems and the only advice that she shared ,
came from the card I gave her.
She thinks it made a difference.
I know it has for me.

It was simply displayed on a sign I read...

You chose your Love...
Now Love your choice!

Was that Me Yelling?

2009-07-13T02:41:00.000-07:00

When I was 9 yrs old, my Dad showed me a life lesson,
that came into play yesterday with an instant reaction.

My Dad sent my Mom home from Darby's Little League game
when she decided to tell the umpire that he was wrong.
"Joan" Dad said, " There are children around here and
that won't happen around kids. You go home."
And she did! Not because he "ruled" over her,
but because she needed to show those kids she was wrong.

Yesterday, at Marc's YMCA softball game, that life lesson
came into play...but not quiet the same way.

The opposing team (Green) were on fire, with their young wives and children looking on.
Our team had a hard time getting started. The Green were penalized an out
from an unaware ruling that they questioned, & questioned & questioned.
I'm thinking it is 8 to 1 in the 2nd ending, the umpire is saying
"We obey the rules" ... get over it!
They stalled the 3rd ending grilling the ump about the old call.
enough already!

Later, I see 2 Green players at there bench,
having words and shoving each other. Then one throws
a water bottle at the other, it continues.
"There are children here!"
"There are children here!"
Was that ME yelling... an instant reaction.
Oops! I said it one more time.
( My kids said I always repeated to much.)
One of the guys goes to comfort his son.
The other is staring me down, being held by
a team member. Me, I stare back ,
thinking, you can be as mad at me as you want buddy,
I don't care, but you will not act that way around kids.
And I don't mean maybe! That was totally unacceptable"

Yes, the Mom lecture was alive and going on in my brain,
and I wasn't letting down.

It was at this point that Marcus feared getting hurt.
"How would you get hurt" I ask?
"Do you think I was going to let him hurt you"
That never occurred to me, Marcus suggested that
I should have left it to the umpire...
but I hadn't really planned on yelling out.
I usually cheer quietly, never calling attention to myself.

But, there were children there!

and Marc's team came alive and won 12 -11

P.S. Scroll down and look at our sweet Eli and his birthday cake.

Happy Birthday Eli

2009-07-11T18:46:00.000-07:00

Elijah James (Eli) is going to be 5 yrs old.
Today, he celebrated with 3 close friends.
Having a cake like this, in Africa, took serious planning.
I think the freight cars contain, skittles, bubble gum,
raisins & tootsie rolls.
The little 2 yr old, is precious Adam,
named after our Adam Langford!
Happy Birthday, Big Boy,
We love you!

Critter Sitter

2009-07-09T04:34:00.000-07:00

I thought I planted an amaryllis bulb in Feb.
It never bloomed, but is over growing it's home.
I noticed that it needed water, and found this...

...just snuggled in!

Just so sweet!

2009-07-07T19:45:00.000-07:00

When it's just to hot.
plan B is to play in the shade

I felt like I was playing
chase, to try and get a picture

Hot, tired, and running out
of steam.

Hidden treasures in boxes

2009-07-06T05:39:00.000-07:00

Jimmy (Jim Bob) Laird 1970

Found a letter from my younger brother, Jim Bob.
It was written on index cards and he was in 3rd or 4th grade.
Kathy & I were at O.C.C.
1.
Dear Kathy and Debby, I hope you are feeling well.
I am doing pretty good
I had larn gitus but I am feeling pretty good.
School is getting harder and harder we are in our prime numbers.
Man, I will be glad when school is out and you all come home.
Will have lots of fun together when you come home.
2.
I hope you are having a grovey time.
And both of you got a new bedspread
Darby Mom & Dad said hi,
AND! Me and Darby got a new bedspread to hahaha,
But we get a new rug hahaha
I am thinking of getting a Job mowing
give part 3 to TERRY But do not read it.

part 3 terry
Hey Terry I heard you got a new car.
I hope you are having a grovey time.
I'll see you soon. We got our gold up and a new basketball
so will have a grovey time.
Mom said thanks for flowers
she said they were buetful. love, Jim

Darby...1970(?)

My brother, Darby, wrote me a letter when I was a sophomore
in college. He was a sophomore in H.S. and I'd forgotten how
beautiful his handwriting is. He talked of basketball practice,
school being easy and making the J.V. team. But I love this...

P.S. "I'm glad I got to talk to you tonight.
Sorry I didn't talk longer. but Mom wasn't in a good mood,
so I wasn't either, because she wasn't.
Remember the Good Word!
Beat those Bulldogs!

They are my treasure!

Found this...

2009-07-03T06:01:00.000-07:00

I found this hand made (a great talent) dish
and decided to give it to a friends newborn daughter
(brownies included) I hope precious Elliana
will use this dish to make fun stuff.
I know her parents will show her how to use
the talents she has to glorify God.

Just found my table clothe and smaller items
in a neat bundle in the washing machine.

Notice this new washer has brought back
the old wash tub walls.

You learn...

2009-06-26T06:29:00.000-07:00

So, when trying to organize my family photos, I came across this saved article. I'm glad I saved it...

"The things you learn in maturity aren't simple things such as acquiring information and skills.
You learn not to engage in self-destructive behavior.
You learn not to burn up energy in anxiety.
You discover how to manage your tensions.
You learn that self-pity and resentment are among the most toxic of drugs.
You find that the world loves talent put pays off on character.
You come to realize that most people are neither for you or against you: they are thinking about themselves.
You learn that no matter how hard you try to please, some people in this world are not going to love you- a lesson that is at first troubling and then really quite relaxing."

(part of a John W. Gardner speech)

A Tie For Father's Day

2009-06-19T05:55:00.001-07:00

Marcus was privileged to play in a tournament
in honor of Nathan's father,and
to provide scholarships for H.S. students.

With a little time to practice,
Nathan has this game!

Marcus said Lana had a great golf stance.
Which one?

So, as Marcus said, "It was lots of fun!"

Here's the score card and "tie"

that Lana sent him for Father's day.
Surely, that would never compare to the fun
at Royal Oaks Golf Course!

So, Lana, Nathan, & Zeb...this should be a tradition, right?

Her Daddy & Papa

2009-06-19T04:15:00.000-07:00

Just sitting by Papa and reading.
Making sure Papa's place setting is right

Just plain sweet, together!

I see my daddy mowing (15 mo old)

Me and my Daddy!

Great Dad's make great people like...

2009-06-17T08:33:00.000-07:00

Morgandy... Sweet, smart, reflective, independent

Alex...passionate, talented, funny, kind!

Lana...crazy fun, adventurous, people lover

Myra...goal setter, serious, determined, fun!

Me...shown the love of our heavenly father,

So thankful to know the greatness of these men,
and see them faithfully love their children.

Nathan & Morgandy

2009-06-14T04:11:00.000-07:00

" I'll save you from a Lana attack, Uncle Nathan!"

"It's just goodnight, not goodbye, Uncle Nathan.":(

"You can't catch me, no sir-ree!"

"Uncle Nathan, I didn't know you made
the same funny face."

"I have to help you practice that funny face."

Park Play

2009-06-14T03:42:00.000-07:00

Morgandy's been down bigger slides,
but today this just seemed the right size.

Morgandy tells Aunt Lana she has to
ride in the back. Glad Lana's hanging on.

"Aunt Lana, you can't catch me"

"Ready, set, going to go!"

These rubbery tiles are fun to run on,
just glad it was a cool afternoon.

Morgandy loved swinging and looking at the crane.

Saving Lana from the lion.

Preparing Breakfast is fun.

Myra, the Mom!

2009-06-12T11:30:00.000-07:00

It has been a blessing, watching Morgandy's incredible parents.
I wish I had been the Mom, that I see Myra being...
I don't think I was a bad Mother...but there are some
"do-overs" that would have been better for all of us.

Myra has established great boundaries
and adjust her expectations within reason.

It's great to see Patrick step up, calmly, and help
keep things on track!

No doubt, Myra was blessed with her Dad's
easy-going calm spirit..that's a good thing!

Myra, you, Lana & Alex have become more than I had prayed for...
giving me assurance of a bigger GOD and that HE definitely
stepped in, just as I ask HIM to.
I am so proud of you...
a mother I wish I had been!

Time flies...

2009-06-12T11:14:00.000-07:00

...when we're having fun,
like making a play-doh mustache
...as we enjoy the beach life

... when Nathan does the fish face for Morgandy
and has to tell her good-bye :(

...when Lana is indoor sky-diving with her Dad
...when we enjoy a little putt -putt!
So, I've been anticipating the visits of our girls
families and now they are gone. It was a great time!
Be safe Nathan & Lana and have a great visit in Montana.

The "I mean business" look!

2009-06-11T21:18:00.000-07:00

or possibly saying "Cheese!"

2009-06-11T20:41:00.000-07:00

More Morgandy

2009-06-10T02:18:00.000-07:00

Hanging out at the beach park

Splashing Mama and filling all 3 buckets with sand

Car trip song...If your happy & you know it
clap your shoes!

Fun Times

2009-06-10T01:25:00.000-07:00

Having a handful of pennies and two fountains to
throw them in, is a lot of work. One here, one there!

Sharing a snow cone with Daddy and
watching the birds...that's beach fun!

"I need to but the sand back in the waatur!"